We are staying in a villa in the South of France that has two large houses in it with 16+ bedrooms, multiple kitchens, living rooms, an outdoor pool and large outdoor spaces.

The villa is located about 1.5hrs north of Marseille, France, here: https://maps.app.goo.gl/GuSCHhJaXhpeQtAk6

From the villa we will travel to places such as Montpelier,

Marseille, Les Calanques and Mt. St. Victoire, among other places with the exact itinerary TBD.

The Marseille International Airport, however you can also take a flight to Charles De Gaulle in Paris if you are willing to take a taxi/metro from there to the TGV train station and take a 1.5-2hr speed train to Marseille.

No. This is a closed container and it is very important that everyone arrive on October 20th. It becomes a safety risk if we have people coming and and out and are not receiving important information and disrupting the flow of the group.

If you decide to come you must arrive on October 20th to the property and depart on November 2nd. No exceptions.

Facilitators will already be there 3 days prior to prepare the property so that everyone has a clear container upon arrival.

Yes! We would love you to bring children to this event, and would be honored to have them. Please keep in mind that we can not offer any discounts for children, because we are charging every bed and food plate - and will still only break even on this event. The only exception would be newborns or babies under 18months old. We can not within budget have kids attend free or lower cost. Every bed spot must have a fully paid ticket. Some of you will be sharing beds with others, so even if your child shares a bed with you - they will still have to pay full price.

However, your child does not have to apply to attend, they may simply attend with you. Upon acceptance, reach out to us to let us know you would like your child to attend and we'll send you to the checkout page to purchase a second ticket.

You will receive a full curriculum document with upcoming calls for the next 6-12 months if you sign up. Curriculum and orientation documents will be updated every 6 months and cover the topics listed above that are an ecosystem of learning Evolution mindset. We are constantly evolving and so is our curriculum. We don't stay stagnant, we flow and change regularly to meet the needs of who is in our containers. Here is what will generally be included.

Unf*cked - get out of your own way

- Spiritual Gnosis: Unlearn people pleasing, fawning, shame, self-doubt to access your sovereign truth and confidence to birth your offer into the world

- Dance Devotion: Use somatics + dance to rewire your experience from being disconnected, to feeling alive and full of energy in your life

- Cyclical Living: Increase cycle literacy- menstrual, solar + lunar- to tap into death/birth medicine of yourself + fall in love with your cycle + find your genius

- Earth Reverence: Learn about matriarchal energetic structures for society and community, to feel connected to healthy community practices

- Serving Cunt: Become devoted to and understand how you are meant to serve in the world in a way that is aligned with earth based principles

Rising - birth your service offering

- Spiritual Gnosis: Get clear on the values, vision and mission for your service

- Dance Devotion: Learn how to create your offering, acquire clients, plan programs and embody service work in the flesh

- Cyclical Living: Learn how to use cyclical energies as devotion to offer your service without burn-out and that centers womb + earth

- Earth Reverence: Learn how to create an ecosystem for your service that allows for abundance, and fulfillment in all areas of life

- Serving Cunt: How to serve your medicine in a way that is in integrity with your values + re-visiting your values, mission and vision

Rose - expanding your service offering

- This is a private 10-person roundtable as we work through the challenges you are currently facing for those with service offerings that are 5+ years old

No. Not everyone will be accepted into this retreat, or these programs. Our retreat is for those who have shown devotion to self and spiritual expansion. We also prioritize those who have been a part of the community in the past, or people who demonstrate they come in expecting to both give and receive - not extract. Our community looks for those who are ready to work with community, through conflict, and show up for one another in big ways regardless if everyone 'likes' one another. We are not a friend-group, and while you will make many close friends, the intention of this group is to create community rooted in solutions and to come with a mission of compassionate impact on the world.

In addition it is not for people who are currently in crisis nor in food or housing insecurity, as we do not want the funding of attendance to put anyone at risk.

Certain programs in our online mentorship world, require a base level of experience in our Cyclical Living, Dance Reverence and Spiritual Gnosis practices. If you have yet to graduate from any programs with us, you will need to complete 6-12 months in our Unf*cked and/or Rising program before participating in our Rose or Risen programs. In addition these programs do not replace nor act as medical treatments nor replacement for therapy, and are not suited for people who are in active crisis. These programs are for leadership development, and we ask that if you are in active crisis, that you not apply here, but that you refer to our resources page once it is ready (to be released soon) for those in need of public assistance or community support. We welcome leaders who have experienced trauma, but we ask that if you come in and have had or experienced trauma, that you have had at least 6 months of therapy treatment and are not in active PTSD/crisis (not impacting your day-to-day survival), prior to joining these leadership spaces. We do have Repair, Harm support and Cunt Coven moon circles that would be more appropriate to join for those who are looking to move towards leadership, but are not currently ready to join a leadership space just yet.

If you know that you would like to participate in Magdalene Risen, but have yet to do a program with us, you will need to start and be in good standing for at least 6 months by the time the retreat begins in one of the above programs. Specials exceptions will only be made for those who have already done extensive work with us in the past, and for which the Oh My Goddess Book Club could qualify you to attend this retreat.

Magdalene Attendees will have 3 calls prior to the event that we will schedule once all attendees are onboarded.

Attendee aftercare calls are on Wednesdays every other week after the event is over, alternating times between 12-2pm and 6-8pm

Oh My Goddess bookclub will meet once a month on the 4th Wednesday each month at 6pm EST

The Cunt Coven meets 2x per month on every full and new moon - at various days and times.

The Unf*cked group will meet on Tuesdays at 5pm EST 3x per month

The Rising group will meet on Wednesdays at 3pm EST 3x per month (this group also has access to all Unf*cked calls)

The Rose group will meet on Thursdays at 12pm EST 3x per month (this group also has access to all Rising + Unf*cked calls)

All programs will take a break from LIVE calls hosted by Lexi in January and August of each year, aside from moon calls and book club calls.

All calls are recorded and available for viewing in the Cunt Coven portal. This is where you can follow and track your progress in each course, share comments on recorded workshops and participate in group forums as you learn and grow together.

We want to make sure all of your needs are met. Please let us know if you require any accommodations—such as ASL interpretation, transcripts for screen readers, different communication methods, or guidance with the technologies we use—so you can fully access the work provided. We encourage you to advocate for yourself, and we will never turn anyone away for requesting support. Our team will stay in ongoing communication with you to ensure your needs are honored and met.

While you will likely have a very transformative experience at this retreat, it is not intended for healing people who are experiencing active PTSD or trauma. This is a high intensity experience that involves a lot of emotional, spiritual and physical resilience. This is a place to expand into the next phase of your spiritual journey, but it is not intended to treat or heal. We highly recommend that if you are in current crisis, that you not attend the event at this time. There are many other places and spaces we have available to you to connect with the community.

We will most certainly have a care-centered culture, will hold space for emotions and all human needs as they arise, and will be present with one another. With that said, the intention of the event is not active healing of trauma, nor tending to active CPTSD. We do not have the qualifications to claim that we have enough trauma informed staff to attend to all 40 people on sight in a medical sense.

We have many practitioners of somatics, yogic healing, and staff who are trauma informed with training in holistic health, however, we are not equipped to treat, heal or actively repair trauma during the event. This is not a space intended for healing active wounds, or traumas. This is a space for those who have already moved through a healing journey and have already transitioned into the phase of their lives where they are holding space for others and leading containers. In cases of emergencies, we will call professional health practitioners to the site.

If you have recently left an abusive situation, if you are navigating a great life transition and are moving through traumatic flashbacks or any type of experience that would require professional support, we ask that you not use this space for healing those wounds. We have many other spaces for that type of work. This is a pilgrimage for those who are expanding, but not in current crisis.

This is a sober event and only on one, possibly two occasions max will we provide very small quantities of wine so that you may experience one of France's greatest quality beverages. The incorporation of such will be ritualized and extremely intentional in relation to the work we do with Mary and the last supper.

No illicit substances including cannabis, alcohol or psilocybin, outside of medical necessity will be allowed on sight. For those who require medications and will need access to one of these, you will have a chance to indicate this to us after you sign up and receive the required signup forms. For those who have medical needs we will ensure the spaces and accommodations required are high quality for your experience.

We have herbalists and chefs who will have amazing alcohol free elixirs and concoctions that will be so good, you will not miss your usual drinks, we promise.

If you would like to smoke herbal blends or tobacco, there will be designated spots on sight to smoke away from windows and doors of the villas.

We are a pro-nude space, and do not associate nudity with sexualization. In French culture, top nudity is also not seen at the same level of taboo as in other places, so top nudity will be allowed for all genders on the private property.

With this said, we are a pro-consent space first and foremost, so we will be sure to check in with the comfort level of those attending the event and determine our community agreements around top + bottom nudity as it pertains to shared spaces, outdoor spaces, bedroom spaces and the pool spaces.

All and nudity rules, including for top nudity, will apply to all, regardless of gender. For example, if we decide no top nudity at the pool, all genders must wear a top covering.

Keep in mind, this will be during a time of year that is rather chilly, so any ideas you had in mind for skinny dipping, may feel more like a mild ice bath.

Over the past two years, Cuntopia has awarded more than $50,000 in scholarships to BIPOC, neurodivergent, and disabled attendees, students, and participants.

Up until now, these scholarships were made possible by a larger financial ecosystem that included corporate contracts, real estate income, and group funding/donation models. However, as our community grows and the scope of people we serve expands, we are shifting priorities, and therefore no longer include those other streams of income in our ecosystem. At this stage, our primary investments must go toward building internal capacity—including employing team members, developing specialized skillsets, offering conflict repair and resolution training, and implementing financial training. This ensures Cuntopia can transition from being one branch of a three-business ecosystem into a self-sustaining, regenerative ecosystem of its own.

Because of this transition, our capacity to offer scholarships has been greatly reduced until we demonstrate sustainable, regenerative profit for at least 12 consecutive months without losses greater than $5,000 on any single offering or event. This safeguard is essential to protect the integrity of our programs and the basic needs of our team, community, vendors and you, our clients.

To offset this shift, we’ve designed accessible entry points at every level:

Donation-based offerings starting as low as $27/month with the Cunt Coven which includes to up to 8 live calls per month.

Tiered programming to ensure leaders at every stage of their journey can find valuable tools, resources, and community support.

Free initiatives, including the Leaders Serving Cunt podcast and The Cuntainer, our ongoing alumni network.

That said, we are maintaining a small number of scholarships with an energy exchange model, reserved for BIPOC and disabled alumni who have previously participated in Cuntopia programs or events. To apply, please complete the application for the program you wish to attend. In the final question, include a note that you’d like to be considered for a scholarship and describe the energy exchange you’re proposing.

We cannot and will not make decisions for you. What we can do is commit to informed consent, which for us means full transparency—about who we are, our beliefs, our vision and mission, and our processes for accountability, including disclosure of any past harms caused by our organization. We believe you deserve this information up front, before choosing to participate in any of our programs or events.

Much of our work is rooted in sovereignty. That means we are here to offer tools that support discernment, help you clarify your own value system, and unpack the internalized doubt or shame that can interfere with self-advocacy. Our intention is to help you strengthen your skills of interoception, build trust in your ability to name your needs and boundaries, and define how you want to show up—in your mission, in community, and in life.

We ask that within our spaces you practice curiosity rather than correction. Seek to understand each other, honor differences, and choose how you wish to relate from a place of integrity and a willingness to learn. Our containers are intentionally designed to hold nuance and complexity, not to impose a rigid set of values or dogma.

Because informed consent is at the center of our practice, we ask that you read our Cuntopia Purpose page before deciding to join us. This page shares:

Our values and guiding principles

How we have handled harm and conflict in past events

Our accountability process if harm occurs in the future

How we orient to systems like money, politics, and capitalism

Our transparency around power, leadership, and the values of our creators and team

We are not affiliated with any religion, political party, or single spiritual practice. We are, however, deeply committed to re-indigenization and to supporting spiritual sovereignty. As a spiritual organization re-birthing divine feminine principles, we believe you can speak directly with god/dess yourself. We are not here to define divinity for you—we are here to act as doulas, holding you in community as you move through the death/birth cycles of your own evolution.

Ultimately, we trust you not to abandon your own values or beliefs. Even when we do not agree, our hope is that within our spaces you grow stronger in your truth, rooted in your unique connection.

👉 Find the Cuntopia Purpose page here.

Lexi has 30 years of extensive somatic + cyclical living studies paired with intersectional + queer feminism through the lens of performing arts production and activist organization for 20 years. The root of this work lies in organizing and motivating large groups of people to work together with their bodies, their inner knowing, they earth and as communities effectively towards a shared goal or intention— in advocacy and movement-building rooted in the Divine Union paradigms beyond the constraints of patriarchal imagination.

We believe that full disclosure of lived experience, mentorship lineage, and spiritual trainings is just as important as academic and professional achievements. The latter are often considered “traditional” qualifications — but only because they are the ones most accepted by Western, white, patriarchal systems. These systems often privilege those who could afford access, while ignoring whether their work demonstrates real skill or integrity.

At the same time, we recognize the risk of people claiming authority without any grounding or credentials. That is why, on the Cuntopia Purpose Page, Lexi provides a full disclosure of her formal education, mentorships, somatic lineages, lived experience, spiritual trainings, self-study, and over three decades of leadership in arts, activism, and organizing.

DEI ADVOCACY, ARTS MANAGEMENT, PRODUCTION, ACTIVISM LEADERSHIP LINEAGE EXPERIENCE (20 years)

Self-Produced Queer + Intersectional Feminist Activist Performance 2005-2017: The Kennedy Center, Washington DC | LVPA, Lehigh Valley, PA | PSU, State College, PA | Theatre Aleph, Paris, France | American Dance Festival, Durham, NC | Dunham Arts Center, Roanoke, VA | Georgia State University, Atlanta, GA | Dance New Amsterdam, NYC | Pace University, NYC | Amazura Concert Hall, Queens NY | Sands Casino, Bethlehem, PA | The Gallery Players, Brooklyn, NY

Companies + Committees

MotherBirther of Cuntopia + The Cycle Witch, 2021-present

Founder of Wall2Wall Multimedia Nonprofit, NYC, DC + LA - 5 years, performances in over 50 venues 2014-2018

DEI Committee - organizer + educator within IPG advertising agency 2017-2024

Alpha Psi Omega - Theatre Honors Society, Hollins University

FMLA - Feminist Leadership Association, PSU

Work Experience

Dance, Somatic + Yoga Instructor in Paris, NYC, PA, MD, Costa Rica, VA+ 2005-Present

Creative Resource Manager + EA to President, IPG Experiential + Public Affairs Advertising Agencies, NYC + DC, 2016-2024

Assistant Choreographer, The Gallery Players Off-Broadway Theatre, NYC, 2015

Dance Theatre Production, Dance New Amsterdam, NYC, 2012-2014

Dance Theatre Production, Pace University, NYC 2012-2014

Donor Relations, Theatre Aleph, Paris, France 2009-2011

Dance Workshop Assistant, Duke University, American Dance Festival, Durham, NC 2009

Donations + Development Relations Intern, The Alley Theatre, Houston, TX, 2008

Self Study

Queer + intersectional feminism, activism, art theory, ableism, anti-blackness, matriarchal history, ecofeminism, spiritual feminism books, podcasts, documentaries, etc, - full media lists available in the above link.

Awards

Distinguished Choreography, Kennedy Center, 2013

Distinguished Production of a New Work, Kennedy Center, 2013

Distinguished Performance and Production Ensemble, Kennedy Center, 2013

Past Education

Lehigh Valley Charter High School for the Performing Arts, Dance Major, 2006

PSU, Theatre + Dance Major, Women's Studies minor (incomplete- transferred 2008)

Rencontres International de Danse Contemporain, Paris, France, State Diploma Dance + Somatic Pedagogy, 2011

Hollins University, B.A. in Theatre, B.A. in Dance, Non-Profit Arts Management Certification, 2012

200hr YTT, Yoga Teacher Certification, The Mindfulness Center, 2021

Fertility Awareness Method + Cyclical Living Private Mentors, Lindsay Yeager + Gina Frances, 2021

Anti-racism + Decolonization private mentorship, YahNe Ndgo, 2023-2024

Current Mentorship

Direct Mindfulness Mentorship from Debbie Norris, PhD, Am. University Professor + researcher at NIH + the VA, 2019-present

Direct Business Coaching/Mentorship from 7-figure biz owner, Bridget James Ling, 2021-present

Business Financial Budgeting + Profit-first CFO models from 7-figure biz owner, Lou Clarke, 2024-present

Female Matriarchal Medicine + Magic and Yin-Reverent Leadership training from The Holy Well- Qiddist Ashe, 2024-present

Queer + Intersectional informed, BIPOC centered Repair + Conflict Resolution with JR Nexus, April 2025- present

SOMATICS, DANCE, CYCLICAL + WELLNESS LINEAGE + EXPERIENCE (30 years)

Somatic mentor lineage (ranges 1995-present): Gaga Technique, Bartenieff, Feldenkrais, Alexander Technique, AFCMD (Analyse Fonctionelle du Coprs dans le Mouvement Danse), Laban, Yoga Asana, Yoga Nidra, Hypnosis, Meditation, Neuroplasticity, EMDR, Physical Therapy, Womb de-armoring, Yoni Steaming

Dance mentor lineage + performance experience (ranges 1995-present) in: African Dance (Ghana, Guinea, Senegal), Modern Dance (Graham, Limon, Horton, Humphrey-Weidman), Ballet (Vaganova + Cecchetti), Post-Modern Dance, Contemporary Dance, Performance Art, Improvisation, Choreography, Contact Improvisation, Afro-Modern, Afro-Cuban, Hip-Hop (Pop n' Lock, Krump + Break), Salsa, Merengue, Tango, Jazz, Tap, Physical Theatre, Musical Theatre, Theatre, Mime, Acting, Performance Art, Dance History, Theatre History, Vaudeville

Wellness + Cyclical Living mentor lineage (ranges 2008-present): Cyclical Living, Fertility Awareness Method, Sympto-thermal natural contraception, Yoni Steaming, Ethiopian Medicine Woman + Doula, Lived Motherhood, Thoughtwork/CBT, Germanic New Medicine, Matriarchal Medicine, Psychiatry/Talk Therapy, Regenerative Ecosystems + Interdependent Community, Co-regulation + communal healing, Yoga + Ayurveda, Traditional Chinese Medicine

SPIRITUAL LINEAGE, PRACTICES + EXPERIENCE (30 years)

Blood lineage: Irish Pagan, Nordic Pagan, Gaulish Pagan, Irish Catholic, English Pilgrim, Scandanavian, Luxembourgan + evidence of Piscataway ancestry, but do not identify with indigeneity to North America nor do I seek to practice those traditions. While I am inspired by practices by my other blood lineages, most of those magic lineages were lost, so I emphasize lived experience with nature, cycles and energy work - informed by what I can salvage from lost lineages.

Mentors' lineage (ranges 2001-present): Evidence based Mindfulness, Celtic Pagan, Nordic Pagan, Wicca, Hinduism, Yoga + Ayurveda, Germanic New Medicine, Ethiopian Medicine Woman + Doula, Italian Witch (Streghia), Traditional Chinese Medicine + Acupuncture, Taoism, Nigerian Catholicism, Irish Catholicism, Islam, Kabbalah Jewish Mysticism, HooDoo, Greek Creation Mythology, 12-steps in Al-Anon, ACA + SLAA, Inner child therapy, Psilocybin Plant Medicine, Luna del círculo Tlahuizpapalotl, Temazcal y Danza de la Luna

Lived Experience (ranges 2008-present): 17 years cyclical living self study re: Menstrual cycles, Lunar intuitive energetic self-study with nature, food and embodiment - particularly new, full, waxing and waning studies, Seasonal intuitive energetic self-study from Northern Hemisphere perspective + Equator perspective with nature, food + embodiment practices - particularly Winter + Summer Solstice, Spring + Autumn Equinox and halfway transition points (sabbats).